Saturday, October 25, 2008

The Bippus Total Money Makeover


We're changing it up this week and I (Michael) am posting this blog. This week Lindsay and I have gotten even more gazelle intense on our ongoing Total Money Makeover. If you don't know what that is, I'll give you a little detail. About 6 months ago we were in Alabama visiting Lindsay's dad when we caught Mr. Dave Ramsey on the television. Ever since we have been obsessed with his philosophy of being debt free. We got back from our visit and cut every expense that we thought was unnecessary, made a budget where we spent our entire month's income on paper with a purpose and stuck to it. It's been six months of doing this and we did AMAZING for about 4 months. We paid off medical bills, credit cards and even our car! After the car got paid off we really took a fall backwards for about two months. We still stuck to the budget, but added some unnecessary items each month and could not find that extra money to pay toward debt. This week we got fed up with the last two months of no progress and re-committed ourselves to the plan. We now listen to Dave on the radio as much as possible to motivate ourselves. We are having a garage sale (right now as I write this) and have made a lot of debt money! I'd like to give you an idea of how much debt we have paid off so far.

In six months we have paid off a total $21,341.26. That total includes medical bills for Olivia's ear tubes, credit cards, my car, furniture bought on two years same as cash plan, and medical bills for Grayson's birth. We are still working on finishing the furniture debt, Grayson's birth medical bills and we still have to get my student loans paid off. We have a little over $12,000 left to go but we are well on our way! We had some extreme help in paying off so much in such a little amount of time. We were fortunate enough to have the ability to sell stock, have the government stimulus check, and even use some of our savings! Our biggest help though has been the Lord our Saviour and we always give to Him first and always off the top because He has blessed us in so many ways. He has given us the strength and patience to continue and we owe it all to Him. This is only baby step 2 of the plan and next we get to fully fund our emergency fund, begin our retirement savings, begin college savings for the kids, attack our mortgage, and finally build our wealth and give give give!!!

We love sharing our story and encouraging people to get on the same path as us. This money makeover has completely changed our lives, changed how we perceive our finances and strengthened our marriage greatly! As you can see we're only on baby step 2 of Dave's plan and have a long way to go but we're enjoying the ride and loving "living like no one else" so later we can "live like no one else." It certainly hasn't been easy, and we definitely go through times where we want and want it now. But in the end we believe our struggles will be worth it!

www.daveramsey.com

He's on the radio in the Tulsa area from 1-4 p.m. on a.m. 970.


An update on the kids:
We got the news on Grayson's hip and everything is ok! He doesn't have to wear a brace and his hips should grow just fine! We are grateful and thankful. Olivia is doing great, she came down with a little bug this week, but nothing she hasn't had before. At school her nap mat did have to get moved next to the teacher because she has a slight problem with not being able to stay quiet or stay laying down. What can we do? She's two!! Everybody is doing great!

Thursday, October 16, 2008

1 month Old...and Big Sis takes a fall




I can't believe my baby is now a month old! The month has flown by and Grayson has grown SO much already. He jumped from 10% at his newborn check-up to 50% at his one month! He does have an issue with his hip and will being going for an ultrasound soon to get it looked at a little closer. Breech babies have a tendency to have loose hips and one of his is really loose. If the ultrasound determines that it is so loose it pops out of place, he will need to wear a brace for a few months. Say a prayer its not too bad.

Miss Olivia took a big fall this weekend! My Dad and her were on their way out the door to fly a kite and she hit the TV hard. As you can see she has two black eyes and a nasty cut. Thankfully nothing is broken and she didn't need stiches. Michael taught her to tell people "you should see the other guy" when they ask about her oowie. She is absolutely loving having her Daddy-O in town!

The PRC banquet went GREAT! We had so many new faces attend and the speaker was awesome! I am so thankful that our first banquet was such a success and know that it will just get better year after year. God is continuing to show me that everything happens on His timing, not ours!

Thursday, October 2, 2008

3 weeks old!

Enjoy these moments now because we'll never get them back!


Healing Rain

Our church did this "cardboard testimony" this past Sunday. AMAZING! They were actual testimonies from people at our church. No matter what is going on in your life right now, it is always awesome to be reminded of God's power. I've watched it several times and still can't get through it without crying! Just had to share...

Happy 3 week old birthday today! Grayson is getting meat on his bones! Since he was two and half weeks early (the doctor had my due date calculated wrong) he was quite skinny when we was born. He is eating 4-5 ounces every 3-4 hours so it's no surprise that he is gaining weight so quickly.

Olivia is still doing great and loves being a helper. Yesterday she was going to be such a good helper that she tried to pick Grayson up to help me put him in the car seat. Needless to say, I don't take my eyes of her even for a minute! We are going to try potty training again soon, we'll let you know how that goes..

I'm feeling much more adjusted to managing two kids right now. This morning I made it out the door 5 minutes early rather than 10 minutes late!

One thing I've learned recently is to stop and consider what matters to you in life. Does making money matter more than spending extra time with your family? I think its important that we all stop and think about what kind of legacy we want to leave here when we go. We sure can't take any of these "things" with us but we can leave our children with values instilled in them. I know that our house may not always be perfectly clean, but at least I know my kiddos are getting lots of time with their Mommy and Daddy. When they grow up, I want them to say "my parents were there for me" rather than " I grew up in an impeccably clean house" or "my Mom and Dad made lots of money."

I'm so thankful that I have a job at home and a job at work that I love. I feel like I have the perfect balance of working part time and being at home with the kiddos the rest of the time. PRC has our first big fundraising banquet next so everyone please say a prayer that it goes well!

I'm still figuring the whole blogging thing out but I think I've fixed it to where you can comment now..

Blessings,

Lindsay